This is just a random post.
It just hits me when I had a conversation about girls
nowadays who are so easily been lied in social media especially in WeChat. I know
I can’t simply blaming the,. The reason why they are being so easy with guys is
because lack of love. And this is what I observe from those girls.
Parents and family play the most important role here. As a
girl, she needs attention. She needs someone who can pampers her and treats her
like a princess. So here goes the parents’ responsibility. The father should
repeatedly say that she is beautiful. She has the fair and flawless skin. She indeed
pretty in her own way and whatever she wears, makes her looks like an angel.
And she might smiling all day listens to this saying 😊. Plus,
brothers should be educate to do the same. It’s not haram pun to take care of
your sisters. Hold her hands when you want to cross the road together or let
her sleep on your shoulders when you are sharing seat in the car. Protect her. Let
her feels secured. Let her know you love her. And insyaAllah she won’t get
influenced with those ‘parasite’ guys out there.
When she get used to those stuffs, she wouldn’t care anymore
if there is a guy with a sweet talks telling her these. Because she already
heard that from her father, her brothers, or even her uncles. And she wouldn’t care
too if her friends looking so sweet holding hands with their boyfriend because
the guys in her family already did that to her since she was a kid.
Well, who cares if a guy tell her she is beautiful? She heard
it repeatedly tho. She already knew it. So those kind of puji-pujian thingy is
a common things to her. It’s not a big deal pun. Sounds arrogant, doesn’t it? But
it’s better than fall into the trap of a bad relationship.
I love what Khaled Hosseini said in his book.
“I know you’re still young but I want you to understand and
learn this now. Marriage can wait, education cannot. You’re a very very bright
girl. Truly you are. You can be anything you want Laila. I know this about you.
And also I know that when this war is over Afghanistan is going to need you as
much as its men maybe even more. Because a society has no chance of success if
its women are uneducated Laila. No chance.”
-Khaled Hosseini, A Thousand Splendid Suns
Marriage can wait, education cannot.
Because a society has no chance if its women are uneducated.
Go and chase your dream, dear girls. Because it’s education
that will make you different. Make your parents proud and lucky for having a
daughter like you. Make them feel worth of the struggle to get birth of you. Let’s
get your life busy with knowledge because knowledge is powerful 😏.
My current obsession
1. Travel to Dungun. (Yes, I mean Dungun only.)
2. I am currently waiting for the paperback version to be published in Kino. Kino, please make it fast T__T
I still got more. But those are what I read repeatedly.